http://www.guampdn.com/story/opinion/readers/2016/09/10/opinion-listen-learn-and-ask-help/90110008/ In 2007, my husband and I lived in the Washington, D.C. area and were expecting our first child. We were awakened in the middle of the night with an alarming call about a close family friend. After rushing to his apartment and then to the police station, we learned the heart-wrenching news that our bright, young, healthy friend had taken …